There are three main types of anal sex toy: the beads, the butt plug, the dildo. These three can be accompanied by anal lube. The beads are really for beginners and are a great way to accustom a newbies ass for anal sex. Butt plugs are a little bigger and are a very good way to condition a regular anal sex partner for your penis. Anal dildos are designed for both masturbation and as a sex aid. If you girl is a bit worried about anal sex, it would be a good idea to get her a nice little anal dildo to see what it is like.